A lady has a rich, affluent, handsome, God fearing young man she was dating and they are planning on getting married. One day, this guy visited this lady in her school hostel. This lady shares a room with her female best friend. This guy decided to take the girl out for lunch because he just flew into the country, this girl kindly and generously invited her room mate to join them for the lunch. During the lunch, this girl excused herself to go use the bathroom, immediately at her brief absence, the roommate requested for the number of her friend’s boyfriend and immediately, they exchanged numbers without the knowledge of the girl. As weeks went by, this girl noticed some strange behaviors from the boyfriend and was wondering what was going on and she kept sharing all these with her roommate friend. One day, she had the shock of her life when she received an invitation letter from both of them that they are getting married. You can imagine the shock and bewilderment on her face, she was confused, it happens that the roommate who she was confiding in was calling the boyfriend and bombarding him with false information about this girl and this was the girl she took in and helped and they did everything together. so sad.

Have you ever experienced betrayal? Have you ever been a victim of betrayal? Have you ever betrayed people? Betrayal is a travesty. Betrayal is an abuse of relationships and trust. Betrayal is evil. Betrayal is unfair, horrible and inhuman. One of the most painful things about betrayal is that it does not come from an enemy, it comes from a supposed friend, a trusted person, someone in your inner circle, someone you least expected. It is so disappointing and painful to know that it is that one person that you helped, assisted, supported and cared for that would turn around to betray you.

Betrayers are hypocrites, they are double faced, they claim to love you but they don’t, they have a mission, they are in your life to get information for your enemies, therefore, be careful who you trust. It is not everyone that laughs with you that loves you. It is not everyone that hangs out with you that really wants the best for you. This is why it is difficult to trust people these days. I have seen friends betray friends, i have seen couples betray each other, i have seen colleagues and associates, mates and partners betray each other, i have seen business partners betray one another. I have seen parents betray their children, family members and even children betray their parents. Betrayers are fake people

Betrayal can make someone lose faith in humanity. Betrayal can affect people’s relationship and social life. Betrayal can sweep one off their feet. Betrayal could leave a lasting scar on people emotionally. Betrayal could damage relationships and one’s good reputation.

If you have been betrayed, pick yourself up, forgive and move on. You have the power within you not to let anyone betray you again. You can once again take control of your life and take back your life. Learn a lesson from every betrayal. Do not allow the fact that you have been betrayed to affect how you treat people, continue to be a good person, continue to be nice to people, continue to serve and assist and help people. There is what is called karma, what goes around comes around, karma has a way of serving people what they deserve. Betrayers would at some point be betrayed, it will surely at some point, somehow come back to them. People should not give themselves the opportunity to be hurt twice or put themselves in a situation that they would be betrayed again and again, people should learn how to eject themselves from any situation or people where or who is likely to betray them again or who have betrayed them in the past. People are so funny sometimes, they pretend before you and it is very difficult to know what they are up to. Betrayal is part of life. Sometimes we cannot avoid it. Let us be more careful with people, who you open up to, who you let into your life, who you confide in, who you tell your secrets and who you hang out with.

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