Do not be deceived or blinded thinking that everyone has overtaken you in life, do not work yourself up and get frustrated unnecessarily that you have been left behind, be ye not intimidated by the optics around you or the things you see being posted on social media. As much as those things are fake, they are not a true reflection of reality, some are so called packaging and thus misleading. No one in this life has a perfect life. Everyone has their struggles and challenges but they would not tell you, you can only know if you are close. Stop being harsh on yourself, stop blaming yourself and beating yourself up. All those you thought that has overtaken you are stock in a hold up somewhere, they may be seen to have arrived but in truth, they have not, in most cases, their journey is stalled, some are still moving but slowly, some are in traffic. So, don’t kill yourself before your time or give yourself high BP. You are not in competition in this life with anyone. The sun and moon do not struggle with each other, each comes out when it is their time……Venatius Agbasiere.