UNNECESSARY ARGUMENTS COULD LEAD TO AN OFFENSE
There are some arguments that are not necessary. There are some arguments that does not worth it. Sometimes we need to spare ourselves of some energy. Our energy could be channeled and used to do something more meaningful and rewarding rather than pointless and blind arguments. Some people like to argue. It gives them joy. Let them argue all they want. You can give them all the reasons, facts and evidence in the whole world but it won’t make any difference to them, their perspective will not change, they already had a made up mind, they wouldn’t accept they are wrong or allow themselves to be defeated in the argument. These are the type of people that knows very well that every human being has two eyes and one nose but they would argue that human beings have one eye and two nose. Everyone knows that 1+1 is two but they would argue that one plus one is three. Such people like to argue for argument’s sake and one does not need to waste time with such people.
One of the worst mistakes one can make is to stoop low to argue with low minds, inexperienced people and people who know so little. Some people don’t know and they can’t accept the fact that they don’t know either due to arrogance or pride. Sometimes Ignorance is blatantly and shamelessly displayed in arguments. A humble person admits they don’t know and therefore they are docile enough to submit themselves to learn, to be corrected, to be taught , to be informed so that they can grow. But the arrogant and argumentative ones would not bulge, they are mr and Mrs I know it all. Too bad.
If you want your peace of mind, avoid unnecessary argument. If you don’t want to give offense, avoid unnecessary argument. If you don’t want misunderstanding, avoid unnecessary argument. If you don’t want any drama, conflict, tension and even a fight, stay clear and out of senseless and stupid arguments. You don’t want to go down that low with such people. Be a person of class. Learn how to and when to walk away. Just know when to keep silent. The best answer to some people sometimes is to stay calm and speechless. Arguments can ruffle feathers and bring trouble and problems, that’s the least thing you need in your life right now. Take the high road. Be a person of class. There is what is called self respect, when they start blabbing and barking like dogs, just leave them and go away. Cherish and value your peace of mind and do not give anyone the power, the chance or the opportunity to hurt your feelings or ruin your mood because of stupid and blind argument. You cannot afford to argue with a fool, you are a wise person for crying out loud. If 1+1 is 5 for them, so be it. It is their problem, good for them, let them deal with it. Just keep going. They are only displaying their ignorance, it has nothing to do with you.
Imagine arguing with someone with a mental problem, excuse me, how far can you go? Learn to retreat, surrender, quit, let go, walk away and avoid unnecessary feud.
I have seen situations where arguments escalate and boom soon it descends into name calling and personal attacks and before you know it, it goes physical and blows are flying off all over the place. You deserve better. I have seen this when people are watching games or sports etc. Learn to say, so be it and walk away and avoid what could lead to something major because it often begins as something small and before you know it, anger comes in, both parties are deep steep in their opinions and no one wants to listen to the other, each thinks their argument is superior to the other. I have personally learned not to reasons to such people, if you chose to, Goodluck!