Many people don’t like you nor care about you but they like and care about what they can get from you or what you do for them or what they gain from your relationship.
Someone once said “people are meant to be loved and things are meant to be used but in today’s world, things are rather loved and people are used.” This is rightly so. For some people, other human beings exist to be used and they are as good as they can be used for personal gains, selfish reasons and ulterior motives. Exploiting people, taking advantage of people are all different ways of using people. There are some who believe in using others to rise and to shine. They do this by pulling others down, making others to look bad so that they can be on the good side of those in charge and get ahead. We often hear of situations where people are used and dumped. People sometimes get into relationships with an agenda, the agenda is to use the other person to get what they want and once they get what they want, the severe the relationship.
No human person likes to be used. It makes people feel like an object. It is an abuse to use people. It shows lack of respect for the person. No human person deserves to be used. Selfish people and greedy people like to use others. Its all about them. People use others to get information, people are used to monitor others to spy on them and to get information, people are used to manipulate and to take down others, people are used to set others up or to set trap for others, people are often used to satisfy lustful desires or the cravings of the flesh, people are used as slaves, people are used by Billionaires to make money for themselves at the expense of the people being used.
Every human person has dignity and deserves to be treated with dignity. Many relationships are not real, they are not mutually beneficial unfortunately, rather they are utilitarian driven, by this i mean a situation where the other is being used and this is why many relationships do not last.
Quit from any relationship, situation, circumstance or condition where you find yourself as being used. No one deserves that and it is unfair and an abuse of the human person. It depletes our humanity and reduces a human person to the level of an object. It is immoral and inhuman to use your fellow human being. It is called exploitation. The day you will stand up and say enough is enough, that you will no longer allow yourself to be used by people, you will ruffle feathers, people will hate you but at the end you will be free. You deserve better, you deserve more, you are awesome, you are blessed, you are beautiful, you are an asset, you are amazing, your are priceless, you are a pearl, you are costly, you are expensive and you are rich, you are not less a human being than the other person, therefore, under no circumstances should you be used by people. stand firm and maintain your ground and say no to anyone in your life trying to use you. you are not stupid, you are not foolish, rather you are smart
